By John Horton
Well, as they say, “Here we go, again.”
Just in recent days, “marches” (demonstrations, protests and rallies) have been announced in response to Donald Trump’s election as the 45th President of the United States. Among these are: (1) Nationwide healthcare protests and rallies in favor of the Affordable Care Act, beginning January 15, 2017; (2) Filmmaker Michael Moore, actors Mark Ruffalo, Alec Baldwin, and other “celebrities” will be holding a massive demonstration and rally in front of Trump International Hotel, January 19, 2017, against Trump’s election; (3) Women’s March on Washington, supporting women’s and minorities’ rights, January 21, 2017.
As aforementioned, there are “Marches” in major cities and metropolitan areas protesting President-Elect Donald Trump. It has been reported that many of these so-call “Millennials” and protestors did not bother to vote, voted for third party candidates and/or voted for write-in candidates.
If any of these actions were taken, I feel strongly that the right to “protest” the election of Trump as president is misguided. Let me be perfectly clear, I voted for Hillary Clinton and a straight democratic ticket. I/we “lost” this particular election. Now, “we” should suck it up, and abide by the election results. For now, there is no reason to “protest,” especially if there were no efforts or actions taken to cast a vote for Clinton, whom some seem to be protesting in favor of. It is now too late. And, for now, maybe a “lesson well learned.”
Again, I find that many of our leaders, influencers and advocates are promulgating “Marches” as the answer and resolution to our myriad of societal issues … especially those that pertain to our children, families, communities, schools, and the nation as a whole. Many of these “Marches” are the culmination of grass roots activism and (mostly) Black leadership to get the ball rolling in order to address the various crucial needs and shortcomings in the Black community.
Marches. demonstrations, protests, sit-ins, and gatherings will fall short and eventually lose their meaning and effectiveness if we fail to do the “hard and smart work” that lies ahead for us to truly overcome our shortcomings and deficiencies. We must clearly understand that these “Marches” are only the preliminaries for what needs to be done. The lower portion of the iceberg lies before us, and we must figure out how to safely and competently navigate around it.
There are some debilitating predicaments that face us as we head into the 21st century. Many of these struggles and challenges will be centered around the cornerstones of familial, social, political and economical amelioration. Simply put, we must learn how to coalesce and compete as we move forward in the new millennium. As Paul Robeson saliently stated over 50 years ago, “We cannot expect others to do those things that we should do for ourselves …”
In that regard, I offer some basic advice and viable suggestions. Admittedly, it will not be an easy task, but it can be done. However, it will take immense self-discipline, tenacity, persistence and lots of hard and smart work.
First, parents and other adults have to accept collective responsibility for making a positive difference in the lives of their children and communities. Others – schools, agencies, organizations, governments, etc. – cannot “make it happen” for us, if we do not want to “make it happen” for ourselves.
Second, to empower our families and communities, our children must learn to be(come) successful in school. This achievable feat has three basic components: (1) attend school daily; (2) behave properly; and (3) do the work (classroom and homework). This will require significant parental involvement, for the school, alone, cannot do this for our children.
Third, as many leaders, influencers and advocates have been saying all along, our youth must learn to practice self-discipline and prioritize their goals in life: (1) finish at least high school; (2) get a job(s); and (3) become adults and get married before having a family.
Fourth, as adults and parents, we must vow that not another generation of Black children will live in communities of poverty, ignorance, violence, apathy and abuse. We must give our children a safe, sound and stable environment in which to grow and flourish. Otherwise, we will have betrayed them and ourselves with broken promises and unfulfilled futures.
If as a cohesive and competitive people, we begin to instill these kinds of values and priorities, then all the “Marches” will not have been in vain. There will have been “substance,” as well as “symbolism,” especially when the spotlight has been turned off and the crowd has gone. It will have been well worth the effort, time and expense. The “messages of the Marches” will have reached home. For, it is now time to get the job done for our children, families, communities, schools … and the nation as a whole.
John Horton is a Norfolk resident an a frequent contributor to this newspaper.